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Amanda Moore-Honigsberg and Gregory Honigsberg first met in 2015 at work, where she was a chef and he a server. Chantal Thomson says she and Orlando Easterling, Jr., “are proud to help pave the way for other people to follow their hearts.” Robert and Marta Muniz have been “inseparable” since 2010, he says. His family roots are in Puerto Rico, hers in Poland. Ed and Christina Victori became a couple in 2014. His heritage is Korean, Irish, and Mongolian; hers is Italian, British, and German. The Many Colors of MaT riM ony 72 Jade Calliste-Edgar is an African-American woman raised in Florida. Halil Bini- ci is a Turkish man raised in Istanbul. The two 23-year-olds live in New York City, where Halil works as a cameraman and Jade is in graduate school, studying to be a mental health counselor. During two days in fall 2017, they were one of numerous pairs of mixed race or ethnicity who tied the knot at the Manhattan marriage bu- reau, then happily posed for National Geographic photographer Wayne Lawrence. Jade and Halil also are part of a cultural shift. In 2015, 17 percent of U.S . newly- weds had a spouse of a different race or ethnicity, according to a Pew Research Center analysis of Census Bureau data. That’s roughly a fivefold increase since 1967, when the U.S. Supreme Court’s ruling in Loving v. Virginia made interracial marriage legal. Simply put, Pew reported, “Americans have become more accept- ing of marriages involving spouses of different races and ethnicities.” The Loving decision invalidated state laws banning interracial marriage, which 17 of the 50 states still had at that time. Changing the law was a start—but it didn’t “necessarily do anything to change people’s minds,” says Syracuse University law professor Kevin Noble Maillard, who writes frequently about intermarriage. Maillard suggests that the growing acceptance of interracial marriage in the past 50 years—and of same-sex marriage in the past dozen years—has been influenced by shifting social norms and by public and media validation. Partners of different races or ethnicities are nothing new, he notes: “But it’s very different when there’s public recognition of these relationships and when they become representations of regular families—when they’re the people in the Cheerios commercial.” Jade says that she and Halil haven’t experienced overt hostility when they’re out together, though sometimes there are dirty looks or muttered insults. Both of them feel that by being a couple they’re promoting important principles: “ That we’re all human beings and there’s nothing inherently different between us.” That’s the point of the meme that the two posted on Facebook shortly before they married. It’s two photos side by side. The first shows two eggs, one brown shelled and one white shelled. The second shows the eggs cracked into a skillet, looking very much alike. The caption: “Let that sink in for a minute, America!” j Halil proposed to Jade by writing WILL YOU MARRY ME in the sand on a beach. Both want- ed a small, frugal wedding. Jade wore a Rent the Runway dress for their vows, witnessed by a few friends, at the city clerk’s office in Manhattan.